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SOCIAL GETS SEXUAL

Posted in Uncategorized on March 31, 2016 by mileswalkedby

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YOU MUST HAVE HEARD IT PROBABLY MILLIONS OF THE TIMES THAT SOCIAL MEDIA IS NOT SAFE, ONE NEEDS TO BE CAREFUL WITH WHAT HE/SHE DOES ON SOCIAL SITES LIKE FACEBOOK AND OTHERS, IN SPITE OF ALL THE WARNINGS AND ADVICE FROM EVERY SECT OF PEOPLE, FRIENDS AND FAMILY THE NO. OF USERS HAVE JUST GROWN FROM NON TO MILLIONS.

FACEBOOK: 1550 Million

QQ:  860 Million

WE CHAT:   650 Million

INSTAGRAM:   400 Million

TWITTER:    316 Million

SO IS IT JUST YOU HAVING REASONS TO BE ON SUCH SITES. NO,RIGHT?

MEDIA HAS PLAYED IT WELL ENOUGH TO GENERATE THIS SENSE OF FEELING IN OUR MINDS THAT WE ARE LONELY WHEN WE ARE NOT CONNECTED TO SOCIAL MEDIA. ITS EASY TO PLAY WITH OUR MINDS BECAUSE WE HAVE HARDLY ANY TIME SO THINK OVER ISSUE ALLOT AND THEN WORK ON IT. “WE SEE WE LIKE WE DO ” IS THE NEW WORLD ANTHEM THAT IS BEEN FED IN OUR BRAINS AND ONE OF THE BEST THINGS WE HAVE LEARNED FROM THEM IS THE EASIEST WAY TO SEE PEOPLE, JUDGE THERE LIFE BY THERE PICTURES, FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEM AND BAD ABOUT WHAT WE COULD NOT DO LIKE THOSE “SO CALLED ” HAPPY LIFE DISPLAY MOMENTS OF OTHERS.

NOW ITS NOT A ROCKET SCIENCE TO UNDERSTAND THAT SEX IS THE MOST COMMON THING AMONG HUMANS AND ANIMALS BUT SINCE ANIMALS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SOCIAL MEDIA WE WON’T TALK ABOUT THEM. ITS HUMANS WE ARE MORE CONCERNED ABOUT AT LEAST FOR NOW ON THIS BLOG. IF WE GO BY THE SURVEY AND STATS. OF SEX ( COUNTRY WISE) YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHO ALL ARE MOST EFFECTED BY THE SOCIAL MEDIA AND INFLUENCED BY THE CAMPAIGN OF  PROFIT MAKING COMPANIES WITH ONLY ONE MOTO WITH IS TO MAKE MORE MONEY. THE DO NOT CARE WHAT THEY ARE DOING TO THE GENERATION AND TO THE COUNTRIES AND FUTURE. There’s an unreliable formula which is to be taken with a pinch of salt and assumes dishonesty on all fronts: some people say that whatever number a woman gives you should multiply it by three to get the real answer, and whatever number a man claims you should divide it by three. However, this idea does make the point that it might be tempting to massage the truth to this effect when as a society we too often still praise men who sleep with multiple partners for ‘playing the field’ yet label women who do the same as ‘easy’ or ‘slutty’.imgres

We see many people in sex therapy sessions who are concerned they aren’t ‘good’ at sex because of their ‘limited’ number of sexual partners.  If this is you, bear in mind that you can have multiple one night stands and not learn as much as you do in a forty year relationship with one person where you’ve understood what makes each other tick and how to satisfy you both sexually. That’s not to say you won’t pick up tips from a variety of partners either – it really comes down to luck of the draw and what you take from each experience.

 

So what’s the average number of sexual partners? Of course, mathematically speaking, this number does exist – although it depends largely on which survey you look at. According to the 2010 Health Survey for England, the mean number of sexual partners is 9.3 for men and 4.7 for women.  However, the 2013 National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles (Natsal) found the mean to be 11.7 for men and 7.7 for women. Last week Slate also offered a sexual history calculator to see how you compare to peers your age.

Relate’s  2014 The Way We Are Now report found that 31% of men and 21% of women had slept with more than ten people in their lifetime. Perhaps due to more liberal attitudes and the number of years sexually active, the number of sexual partners people reported over a lifetime peaked among those aged 35-44 years, with over a fifth of this age group reporting 20 or more sexual partners. In contrast, just 9% of people aged 65+ reported having 20 or more sexual partners during their lifetime.  This no doubt goes hand in hand with the way society is changing. A few decades ago, many hotels would only take bookings from married couples and sex before marriage was frowned upon. Nowadays, cohabiting is very much a part of our social fabric and casual dating with multiple partners is increasingly common.

TRUST ME YOU ALL ARE SATISFIED WITH YOUR PARTNERS AND YOU ALL ARE SAFE, JUST NEVER LET THESE SURVEYS AND SOCIAL BLOGS AND MEDIA TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE NOT. YOU DON’T LIVE WITH THEM, YOU DON’T SHARE QUALITY TIME WITH THEM, YOU HAVE NOT SEEN THEM THEY WHY THE F*** YOU GIVE THEM THE RIGHT TO EVEN THINK ABOUT WHAT THEY ARE SAYING AND TRY TO CORRUPT YOUR MIND. JUST MEET THE RIGHT GUY OR A GIRL. BE WITH THEM HAVE A WONDERFUL LIFE AND PLZZZZZ TAKE ALLOT OF TIME TO MEET THE STRANGERS AND SAY YES TO THEM. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE, YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT’S GOING ON IN THERE MIND. SO YOU BETTER TAKE YOUR TIME. KNOW THE PERSON AND THEN GO AHEAD AND PLZ TAKE OUT THIS SEX THING OUT OF YOUR MIND. YOU WILL SPEND LESS AND LIVE MORE.

NOW THERE WILL BE FEW GIRLS SAYING THAT I DON’T NEED TO TELL THEM ABOUT HOW MANY PEOPLE THEY NEED TO SLEEP WITH BECAUSE ITS THERE PERSONAL MATTER BUT DARLING YOU DON’T KNOW YOU MIGHT ENDING UP MARRYING ME SO ITS NOT PERSONAL ANYMORE . 😛

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE READING AND THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING.

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